He Is Just Not That Into You

Lately I've been reading this book ' He Is Just Not That Into You ' for Greg Behrendt and Liz Tuccillo , and may I say it's a must read for all girls , it's the no- excuses truth to understanding guys for real, it tells you exactly when to walk away from this relationship because it's not going anywhere even if it's a long term one. Sometimes us - girls - we want a relationship to work so bad that we start creating excuses in our heads for why he has been treating us like shit lately , why he doesn't call when he say he will call , why he is not the same caring loving person we first fell in love with , why he doesn't do what he promises to do, and a lot of whys we choose to ignore because we are afraid from the truth, we are afraid to ask them because the answer will always be that ' he is just not that into you '.
But to be honest, this book really taught me a lot, it taught me how I should never settle for less, always know what I'm worth and never compromise, know when exactly to say enough is enough , and I will write about all the guys I've met or at least went out in a date with them once and when exactly I knew that I'm simply not that into them or they are not that into me , I will write about them in Episodes maybe I'll just call them ' He is Just not that into me ' so wait for them.
But again girls , I insist this book is a MUST read , it will make your love life much more easier , it answers all the questions you are afraid to ask , it's the dating bible for us women , after reading it , you will know exactly if he is a keeper or he is just a dickhead you need to dump as soon as possible.
Here are some quotes I really liked from the book and thought I would share them with you girls :


* He's just not that into you if he is not asking you out , because if he likes you, trust me he will be asking you out.
* If you can find him, then he can find you. If he wants to find you , he will.
* You are good enough to be be asked out.
* Don't let the "honeys" and the "babys" fool you. his sweet nothings are exactly that. they are much easier to say than I'm not that into you. Remember actions speak louder than words.
* If he is not calling you , it's because you are not on his mind.
* If he creates expectations for you, and then doesn't follow through on little things, he will do the same for big things. be aware of this and realize that he's okay with disappointing you.
* Don't be with someone who doesn't do what they say they are going to do.
* If he's choosing not to make a simple effort that would put you at ease and harmony to a recurring fight, then he doesn't respect your feelings or needs.
* 'Busy' is just another word for asshole, asshole is another word for the guy you are dating.
* You deserve a fucking phone call.
* He is just not that into you if he is not dating you, Remember hanging out is not dating, he may do all the things that a boyfriend does but never actually call you his girlfriend. beware of the word friend . It can be used by men that you love to excuse the most unfriendly behavior , Personally when I choose friends, I like the ones who don't make me cry myself to sleep.
* Better than nothing is not good enough for you.
* If you don't know where the relationship is going, it's okay to pull over and ask.
* Your lost self esteem may take longer to find than a new boyfriend , so prioritize accordingly.
* Cut him off. Let him miss you.
* He doesn't need to be reminded that you're great.
* There is a guy out there who's going to be really happy that you didn't get back together with your crappy ex- boyfriend.
* There is no mystery. he is gone and he wasn't good enough for you.
* unless he's all yours, he is still hers.
* You already have one asshole , you don't need another.